This man is so sick in many ways, raping his stepdaughter and telling her no other man would want her and that she is lucky he is raping her. Putting the rape aside for now, what sort of stepfather tells his own stepdaughter that no man would want her because she has had a sex change. How does the fact that she was once a man change the person she is now and make it that no man would want her.
Who did he think he was to judge what other males might want or the act that his stepdaughter might even be interested in males. Who did he think he was to tell her that her family disliked her now she had the sex change, most family love other family members no matter what, they don’t suddenly dislike family because of their life choices.
Very poor excuse to use that she is lucky he is raping her and using the excuse no other male would want her and that in doing so he was doing her a favour. If he wanted to do her a favour it would have been to let her know he was supportive of her choice to become a female and let her know that as her stepfather he was fully behind her decision and that she was a beautiful person. That she had the support of her family, not telling her, her family disliked her now.
Besides the trauma of being raped by her stepfather, this person now has to fight the mental and emotional abuse he gave her. These are things that all have life long negative thoughts that will haunt a person for life, yes one might hide them for years but they always come back at various times and bring on severe depression.
Using threats to keep her silent and to be able to keep raping her by saying he would ruin her mother’s life, did he not think that if she had said something earlier, those threats would have been a negative threat as he would have ended up as the guilty party. He obviously has no love for his wife as he could threaten to ruin her life and rape her now daughter who was once her son.
Saying he couldn’t help it because she had become such a beautiful woman and yet saying no man would want her, hello how did he not rape all the other beautiful women that are out there, oh wait, he wouldn’t have been able to bribe them into silence. Such a sick and twisted male.
So often rape victims are silenced through fear of being ridiculed, blamed for the rape, told they deserved it for some reason or another or other ways. Being a victim can lead to a feeling of total shame because it happened, that you feel shame because you feel it was your fault or that somehow you allowed it to happen. A person should never be made to feel any of these or should never be raped in the first place, if one can’t control oneself, one should seek medical help whether through a psychologist or other medical means.
Thought of the day: Rape through feeling like you have to have sex with a partner / spouse is often the most common form of rape and the least type to be reported. When one feels that to show you love someone that you must perform some form of sexual interaction is something one should never feel or put up with. If you truly love someone you would never make them feel like they need to have sex just because you feel like it.